Healthy Relationships

Finally, another way to promote a healthy sense of self in children is to ensure that children live in situations where they feel safe, included, and affirmed. This means fostering healthy and supportive families and communities. Children thrive when they are surrounded by people who love and support them. This provides a sense of belonging and security, which are keys to a healthy sense of self. Being a part of a larger community provides role models for children, different sorts of friends and experiences, opportunities for exploration and learning and growth, and spaces where they feel they belong. All of these enrich a child’s life even as they provide that child with the opportunities they need to develop a strong and healthy sense of self.        

To support a healthy sense of self in children it is critical to support the communities where they feel safe, included, and valued.

  • Academic sense of self
    how a person thinks of themself as a student
    Bias
    the belief that some people or ideas are better than others, usually resulting in unfair treatment
    BIPOC
    Black, Indigenous, people of color
    Conscious
    thoughts or feelings that we are aware of
    Growth mindset
    the belief that, with effort, you can learn and achieve new things.
    In-group preference
    the tendency to form close relationships with others in a person’s same groups
    Self-esteem
    a cluster of characteristics, such as feeling confident, having pride in oneself, and a sense of self-worth
    Sense of self
    how a person thinks and feels about their self
    Stereotype
    a widespread belief that a person must have a trait because they belong to a particular group
    Unconscious
    thoughts or feelings that we are unaware of